Last night, as I was sleeping, I dreamt—blessed vision!— that a fountain flowed here in my heart. I said: Why, O water, have you come along this secret waterway, spring of new life, which I have never tasted? Last night, … Continue reading
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Waiting In Between Times
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What do you do when you are in you’re in between times waiting to get the treatment that you can walk again? Jim Kaszynski “THE IDEA MAN’ life changing adventure from Thailand raising funds for an orphanage, to walking 500 miles … Continue reading
“Is that so?”
A Zen story: “
A hermit, who lived in the forest close to a village, was one day confronted by an angry crowd of villagers, who accused him of having made a young girl pregnant.
“Is that so?” was all he said.
He took the young girl in and looked after her. After some time had passed the young girl went back to the village and confessed to her parents that she had lied; the son of their neighbour, whom she loved, was the father.
The villagers went back to the hermit, apologized profusely, telling him the story.
All he said was: “Is that so?”
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Like the monk in the story our strongest habitual responses are often anger or the other side of the same coin – depression. This is reflected in the detailed teaching from the Desert Tradition about the ‘Demon of Anger’. The Desert hermits considered that one way of dealing with the automatic angry response to the insults of others was the virtue of humility.
Finding Meaning In Between Times
Find meaning.
Distinguish melancholy from sadness.
Go out for a walk.
It doesn’t have to be a romantic walk in the park,
spring at its most spectacular moment,
flowers and smells and outstanding poetical imagery
smoothly transferring you into another world.
It doesn’t have to be a walk during which you’ll have
multiple life epiphanies and discover meanings
no other brain ever managed to encounter.
Do not be afraid of spending quality time by yourself.
Find meaning or don’t find meaning
but steal some time and give it freely
and exclusively to your own self.
Opt for privacy and solitude.
That doesn’t make you antisocial or cause
you to reject the rest of the world.
But you need to breathe.
And you need to be.”
― Albert Camus